LADIES AND GENTLEMEN of the Class of 2007 -- a few words of graduation advice:
Have a safari with life.
Think
of the world beyond the classroom as a wilderness adventure, full of
wonder and discovery and, yes, danger and disappointment. The journey is the destination -- that's what Jim, your trusty safari guide, wants you always to keep in mind.
Live your life with passionate intensity and do not waste time with petty frustrations.
Make a list of things you want to know or do and chase them by pushing yourself to the precarious edge of possibility.
Strive to contribute to the world because none of us knows how much time is left on the clock.
This
is the gospel according to Jim -- Jim Clowes, who died from cancer in
2004 at the age of 47. Several years ago, I interviewed the popular
University of Washington senior lecturer who profoundly touched the
lives of hundreds of students through the Comparative History of Ideas
program.
He was known for encouraging young people to live out
their ideas by going to Europe, Africa and the Middle East, where they
could see human conflict up close and create projects to encourage
others to find common ground.
The other day I came across a
printout of an old e-mail from Jim. It was dated March 2003 -- the same
week U.S. led-forces invaded Iraq in what was supposed to be a short
war.
His words still echo.
Throughout history, he writes,
folks have sacrificed their lives to protect their own, but "people
should ... resist the tragic human tendency to find meaning in the
killing of the enemy."
Understand people who are different, Jim writes. Don't demonize them.
"Sometimes one must fight -- such is the sorrow of our lives," he says. "But I also believe that this is very rarely the case."
Jim
writes that we should be wary of the "Great Lie" -- "those visions of
high moral calling that ... divide human beings between good and evil.
Are we not all good and evil? Do we not all struggle to make sense of
this life?"
The answers, of course, are yes and yes.
Exercise humility.
Respect others.
Tell the truth.
Take time to listen.
Oh,
and there's the importance of having a backup plan. That is why I'm
bringing Jim's wisdom to you, the class of 2007, which will graduate
this weekend from Seattle University, Seattle Pacific University and
the University of Washington, just in case your commencement speaker
has nothing to say. (ha.. ha)
Jim does, beyond other pearls you may hear
today, such as "Leave the toilet seat down!" or "Some things are best
left un-Googled."
Be fearless, for once you face your fear, you'll find the opposite -- the strength of mind and courage to get through.
Believe something good can happen and will. Never stop learning.
Try not to leave room for regrets.
You
get meaning in life by finding a partner to love with a love that
stretches your heart, by pursuing work that feeds your soul, by
volunteering with kids or cleaning up the environment, by not just
making something of yourself but making the most of yourself.
You
gain joy by nurturing true friendships and family ties and seeing your
kids grow up, by downing oysters with a cool drink on a hot summer day,
by taking the time to read a good book or by plunging into the world to
see different people and places, by feeling the sand between your toes
as the surf rushes up.
"Take care of each other," Jim sums up in the e-mail.
And
enjoy the grand safari, ladies and gentlemen. It can be heady. It can
be unpredictable. It can be fun, but keep an eye out for the cheetahs
and jackasses.
Just one last thing -- use sunscreen.